Here’s the difference for me. I routinely work 80-90+ hour weeks when on a project. This is an on-site project far away from home. I don’t do touristy things. I don’t often, if ever, hang out with coworkers on weekends. I’m there to bank as much money as possible.
At the end of my contract I go back to the family farm to decompress. Sometimes I stay here three months, sometimes it is close to two years. You can work 80-90 hour weeks, but you have to lead a semi-retired kind of life. Long breaks between projects. Only take projects you find interesting. You don’t even realize you are working like a slave when you truly enjoy what you are doing or are simply fascinated by it.
I talk quite a bit about this topic in my latest book. In particular you probably want to read Karoshi – Do More With Less. There are other essays and conversations about the people I know of who died in IT. Some of them I personally knew. Others I came to the client site after the death. Others were just local lore about managers killing themselves in the office to buy their development team more time to complete the project.
If you grew up on a farm you can generally work all the time. At least if you grew up on a farm when I did because that’s all there was to do. We had three television stations; five if the weather was perfect and we turned the antenna. There was no air conditioning and no Internet. You could sweat while reading a book or you could sweat while working. At least when you were working you were moving.
Roland Hughes started his IT career in the early 1980s. He quickly became a consultant and president of Logikal Solutions, a software consulting firm specializing in OpenVMS application and C++/Qt touchscreen/embedded Linux development. Early in his career he became involved in what is now called cross platform development. Given the dearth of useful books on the subject he ventured into the world of professional author in 1995 writing the first of the "Zinc It!" book series for John Gordon Burke Publisher, Inc.
A decade later he released a massive (nearly 800 pages) tome "The Minimum You Need to Know to Be an OpenVMS Application Developer" which tried to encapsulate the essential skills gained over what was nearly a 20 year career at that point. From there "The Minimum You Need to Know" book series was born.
Three years later he wrote his first novel "Infinite Exposure" which got much notice from people involved in the banking and financial security worlds. Some of the attacks predicted in that book have since come to pass. While it was not originally intended to be a trilogy, it became the first book of "The Earth That Was" trilogy:
Lesedi - The Greatest Lie Ever Told
John Smith - Last Known Survivor of the Microsoft Wars
When he is not consulting Roland Hughes posts about technology and sometimes politics on his blog. He also has regularly scheduled Sunday posts appearing on the Interesting Authors blog.